So you’ve turned your kids into dedicated runners? Congratulations! Being a runner is not only a great way to stay in shape, but it’s also a state of mind, a sense of responsibility, and an activity that your children can hopefully pursue for the rest of their lives. Running allows them to have goals, setbacks, and challenges. It is a sport that they can do anywhere in the world – and they can probably find people there to join them on their run as well. Running, in short, is an admirable passion. You should be proud that you’ve instilled that passion in your children.

But every time your kid steps outside to go for a run at night, in the heat, in the cold, or in a new place, you may worry as a parent that you’ve given them a passion that sometimes renders them unsafe. While there are certainly places in the world where you may want to think twice about letting your child run, a run at night or in the cold is not inherently a dangerous proposition – so long, of course, that your son or daughter is prepared. To help insure that they are prepared for the elements, here are some questions to ask them before they head out:

Hot Weather

• Have you been hydrating today? What color is your pee?
• Do you have a water bottle? If not, please tell me where you can get water along the run, if necessary?
• Can you promise me you’ll stop if your legs get heavy or you start feeling a cold sweat?

Cold Weather

• Are your fingers covered?
• How about your head?

At Night

• Are you wearing reflective clothing, or at least light colors?
• Where are you going? Can you promise to stay away from traffic, or in well-lit places, or both?

In A New Place

• Can you tell me exactly where you plan to run?
• What is our current address?
• How can you reach me if there’s a problem?

In a Potentially Dangerous Area

• Will you carry mace? If not, can you pick up your running pace?
• Can you leave any valuable watches or other equipment behind?
• Do you really need to run today?

Even if your child resents it, make a point of asking these kinds of questions before they head out for a run. It will, ultimately, make them safer. Furthermore, you can tell them: once you do this without prompting, I won’t ask these questions anymore. I’ll know that you’re a safe runner.

Good luck, happy running, and – as always – be safe.

Bio: Harold Hunt is a blogger and avid runner based out of Pittsburgh. He also writes for Phone Bulletin, a site with news about mobile phones and technology.

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Would you?

I would. At least I think I might start.

Let me explain.

We were at Panera for dinner and our 7yo son, after he had eaten his fair share of chicken noodle soup, sandwich, and yogurt, asked if he could have dessert. The rest of us were still eating, so I fished out a $5 bill and then he went up with my wife to buy his choice. A few minutes later, he marched proudly back, carrying a huge cinnamon roll and $2.51 in change.

Normally we would pay for the desserts using a credit card along with the rest of the food. But this time, seeing the cash really brought home the value of one cinnamon roll. Two dollars and forty nine cents! That’s a lot!! Granted, it was a big one, but its size just served to underscore how inflated (and wasteful) all of this really was. The cinnamon roll was more than he really needed, and $2.49 was more than it should really cost.

So I asked him a question. I asked him if he had the option to take the two dollars and fifty cents and either buy a cinnamon roll or keep the money, what would he do? After all, either way I end up spending the money anyway.

He said he’d keep the money and skip dessert.

Now, we’ve been paying our kids a weekly allowance for a while, and our rule is that when we go to Target or anywhere else, instead of begging us for toys or any other random item they may want on a whim, they can buy whatever they want (as long as it is appropriate) with their own allowance money. Because of this, our kids now know what $3 will buy, what $5 will buy, and what $10 will buy. They know that for the bigger, better toys, they need to save for a few weeks. They get to make their own decisions and take responsibility for those decisions, instead of all the control and decision responsibility being with us (making us the bad guys every time we say no).

I wondered if the same concept could work with desserts.

My seven year old, the one who said he’d skip dessert and keep the money, is a dessert fiend. He would eat sweets constantly all day if he could. This kid lives for dessert.

So lately, enforcing good nutrition has felt more and more like a battle with him. He’s always trying to see how little “real” food and how much dessert he can get away with. And we’re always reminding him that he needs to make healthful choices.

But what’s his motivation? Dessert is coming anyway, and Mommy and Daddy are always providing it. Any occasions where he has to skip dessert are occasions when Mommy or Daddy are being the bad guys and making the decision for him. And then it’s no longer about living and eating healthfully — it’s about us being mean to him and what little educational value there might have been in the discussion is suddenly lost.

And when you look at the long range consequences of that, how are we preparing him to make good food choices independently? If we always tell him what to eat and what not to eat, how will he ever learn to make his own decisions later when he’s on his own? Maybe we’ve just been raising a monster — one that will go out and buy sweets every chance he gets when he’s on his own to make up for all the sweets that his parents had deprived him of.

And this is where I had my big epiphany.

Why not let him start making the choices now?

Of course if we just ask him whether he wants dessert or not, he’ll always say that he wants dessert — as long as we’re buying.

But once he has the choice of getting the dessert or getting the money, now he has to think about what that dessert is worth to him. Yes, it will taste really yummy right now, but with $2.50 he could buy two Hot Wheels or a pack of Silly Bandz. Or, he could skip a few desserts and get a new stuffed animal or maybe even a Beyblade! Now instead of a hollow choice of sweets or no sweets, a whole new world of possibilities opens up for him.

The point is, the choice is his. He can learn that desserts don’t just magically appear. They have value, and their value can be understood in relation to other things. And he can finally decide for himself that perhaps he doesn’t really need that humongous cinnamon roll.

It’s a far cry from making decisions based on nutritional value and health and other adult concepts, which are vitally important but aren’t real to a seven year old — but I think it’s a step in the right direction.

What about you?

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of Light, it was the season of Darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair…”

From A Tale of Two Cities, by Charles Dickens

Over the last two weekends, my kids ran two different fun runs. (That’s my youngest in the photo)

One was sponsored and coordinated by the local hospital, with the goal of promoting health and fitness. The other was sponsored and promoted by a school, with the goal of raising funds for the financial aid fund.

One had post-race entertainment consisting of healthy homemade foods, a variety of physical activities, and a live band playing kids’ music. The other had a free can of soda pop for each kid that ran.

Pop Can Fun Run

The Pop Can Fun Run drew hundreds of local kids between the ages of 2 and 10 to have fun and promote health and fitness. The race was run in heats by age (2 year old race, 3 year old race, etc.). The 2 through 4 year olds ran down the block about 0.1 miles. The 5 through 10 year olds ran down the block and back, about 0.2 miles. Boys and girls ran in separate heats, and it was especially great to see so many girls at the race! (The photo above is the start of the 5 year old girls race)

Yet, with all its potential, the Pop Can Fun Run left a bad taste in my mouth. Despite the event being sponsored and run by the local hospital, right next to the hospital, to supposedly promote health and fitness, each participant (including the 2 year olds) could claim their own can of soda pop after they ran.

Pop Can Fun Run finisher’s tent

Something just doesn’t sit right with me when a hospital hands out free sodas to kids. Yes, they did need to run for it. But is that what we’ve come to? We need to bribe our kids with soda to get them to come out to a race?

“I’d do anything for a soda — I’d even run!”

I should expect higher standards from a hospital, and yet somehow I’m not surprised. What a great event for educating the public! Yet there were no nutrition pamphlets or advice to be seen, no nurses talking to families about how to keep their kids healthy, and no displays or activities promoting fitness. Wasting such a golden opportunity for public health education would have been bad enough, but handing out free soda to kids took the cake.

For more on why I think handing out sodas to kids is such a bad idea, check out my previous post on the scary truth about sugar for runners.

CVMS 5K and 1 Mile Family Fun Run

Although not as well attended as the Pop Can Fun Run, the CVMS 5K and 1 Mile Family Fun Run (which drew less than 200 participants across both events) was outstanding! Sponsored by the Chemung Valley Montessori School, the purpose of this event was “to help our students, families, and communities focus on the benefits and fun of fitness while fundraising and supporting those in need.”

Both the 5K and 1 Mile events were kid-friendly — and in many cases entire families ran together. The entire 1 mile course, and the majority of the 5K course, went out and back on a rail trail (pictured below). Some kids ran the whole way. Some ran and walked. Some stopped to pick flowers or look for birds in the marshland adjacent to the trail.

CVMS 1 Mile Family Fun Run

After the race, kids and families were welcomed onto the school playground to enjoy homemade food including (but not limited to) a variety of fresh fruits, hummus, pasta salad, and granola bars. An inflatable was set up next to the kids’ band so the children could bounce away what energy they had left after running while the band played kid-friendly music like “Cheese Man”.

All in all it was a fabulous family event — just what a family fun run should be.

So what do you think? Am I being too hard on the hospital? Chime in with your comments below!

Do you ever wonder why kids grow up wanting to be Michael Jordan, but not Ryan Hall? Or if distance running will ever be able to match the popularity and advertising budgets of MLB?

The article then goes on to speculate how showcasing events online through new media or making races more spectator-friendly can lead to an upsurge in popularity for running.

Interesting ideas, but they’re based on the flawed assumptions that more popular equals better and that professional athletes who can be idolized by the masses are a necessary ingredient for attracting the masses.

This connection to athletes and spectators is vital in creating a growing and loyal fan base. … “There is an obvious connection between the masses and the professional athletes, some of whom began as mid-packers.”

Bigger isn’t better

For all the millions and millions of baseball fans out there, how many of them actually play? Maybe they played in little league or scraped up stickball games when they were kids, but I would speculate that the vast majority of adult baseball fans are spectators — and that spectating does nothing to advance the sport. Sure, it brings in billions of dollars of revenue and gives people something to talk about at work the next day. But it also creates problems like the Barry Bonds steroids scandal.

Is this what we want for running? As it is, running is already plagued with its share of blood doping and other scandals. Fortunately, if you Google “running scandal” you find lots of scandals, but nothing related to running until you get to the bottom of the page. Try the same thing for “baseball scandal” and you get pages and pages of examples of exactly what we don’t want to happen to running.

Don’t spectate, participate!

The other downside to the media glitz and high profile image of professional sports, like baseball, is that it actually reduces family participation. Kids no longer want to play ball with Dad. Dad isn’t good enough anymore. They’ll sit on the couch or in a stadium and watch a ballgame with Dad while he drinks a [few] beer[s]. But instead of playing ball as a family in the backyard, Mom and Dad shuttle their kids off to endless T-Ball and Little League games in hopes that they can be good enough to make Varsity in high school, and then play ball in college. And while Junior has dreams of getting drafted and growing up to be just like Barry Bonds or Sammy Sosa, Mom and Dad continue to watch from the sidelines.

I think the beauty of running is that it isn’t spectator-friendly. The only way to enjoy running is to participate! And through participation, we turn an individual endeavor of striving to achieve milestones of new distance records and PR’s into a community event where it’s more about supporting each other than competing against each other.

I don’t expect my kids to grow up being active and fit because they want to be just like Usain Bolt. But I do hope that in time they will emulate my commitment to running and physical fitness because I can set an example for them that may show them how to live happier and healthier lives.

And it is in this way that Running gives each of us the opportunity to be better role models for our kids and our families than Barry Bonds could ever be.

Do you know what your kids are doing this summer?

This is the time of year when parents across the country are scrambling to schedule their kids’ summers. When does school end? When does school start up again? What week(s) are we going to all go on vacation together? What long weekends will we take? And most importantly — What summer camps will we sign up for this year?

The summer camp options seem almost limitless, with, of course, more and more options opening up as your kids get older. Well, here’s an option you may not have considered.

Try a youth running summer camp

These camps are a great way for your kids to have a lot of fun in a safe environment while improving their running and learning about fitness with peers that share the same values. And, believe it or not, there are kids running summer camps all across the country! Most are open to kids in Middle School through High School, but age requirements vary from camp to camp. If you search locally on Google chances are you can find one near you. Here’s a selection of running camps from across the country that are worth checking out!

Kids Summer Running Camp List

• Nike Running Camps — locations nationwide, ages 14 to 18 This is the 800 lb. gorilla of youth running camps with programs all across the country. Check out their website to find a Nike Running Camp near you. These camps are all professionally staffed and held on college campuses. Definitely worth a look!
• Warr10r Camp — Locations in Florida and Georgia, ages 12 to 18 This camp has kids run on trails in the Florida and Georgia countryside. If I still lived in Georgia, I’d send my kids here!
• Runners Workshop XC Camp — Lake Tahoe, Malibu, and Idyllwild, CA, ages 12 to 18 California has some of the prettiest running country and best weather around!
• Stars and Stripe Track Camp — Oregon, ages 6 to 18 Kids as young as six can attend this daycamp to learn and practice a variety of track and field events.
• Steens Mountain High Altitude Running Camp — Oregon, ages 13 to 19 When they say “High Altitude” they’re not kidding! Base camp is at 7500 feet, and with daily runs through the mountains, this camp is not for the fainthearted.
• Elevate Running Camp — Arizona, high school ages Another mountain running camp, Elevate puts a focus on on learning with instructional sessions everyday in addition to regular runs and typical camp fun.
• Camp Isaiah — Colorado, middle school to high school ages This Christian camp allows kids to enjoy running and other activities while exploring their spirituality in the Rockies.
• Carrie Tollefson Training Camp — Minnesota, middle school to high school ages Started by running star Carrie Tollefson and held in her hometown in Minnesota, this high performance camp is exclusively for girls.
• Wilderness Running Camp — Missouri, teens Located in the beautiful Ozarks, this camp is a true outdoor adventure that combines trail running with fun outdoor events like float trips.
• First XC Running Camp — South Carolina, teens Held on the grounds of Furman University, this camp is for runners of all ability levels.
• Cavalier Distance Running Camp — North Carolina, teens Located near Asheville, NC, this Christian running camp is packed with outdoor activities such as a ropes course and hiking through the beautiful Blue Ridge Mountains.
• X-Treme Running Camp — New Jersey, middle school and high school ages This high performance camp located near the Delaware Water Gap is geared towards helping competitive runners jump to the head of the pack.
• Aim High Running Camp — New York, middle school and high school ages This camp, set in upstate New York’s Adirondack Mountains, is packed with activities!
• Portsmouth-Newport Running Camp — Rhode Island, high school ages Open to runners of all ability levels, this camp is set on the scenic campus of Portsmouth Abbey School near historic Newport, RI.

So what are you waiting for? Find a camp near you and sign up before they fill up!

And if you know of a great kids running camp that I missed, please let us know about it in the comments!

No running in Mrs. Obama’s plan?

I, along with the rest of the fitness community I’m sure, applaud our First Lady’s commitment to fighting youth obesity. This is an epidemic in our country which has long been ignored and it’s wonderful to see it getting some serious attention. But is it missing something? Donald Buraglio and Mike Dove of montereyrunninglife.com point out in The Herald Monterey County that she has neglected to include running:

Maybe we’re paranoid, but we’ll put this one out there … we’re a bit offended that the Surgeon General’s “Vision for a Healthy and Fit Nation 2010″ says children should have 60 minutes a day of vigorous exercise but doesn’t mention running. Included in the activity examples are softball, racquetball, kayaking (Really? In inner cities?), skating, mall walking, and washing the car, but somehow running didn’t make the list.

I couldn’t agree more!

See, here’s the thing: running is the simplest, cheapest, most accessible and most effective means of exercise there is. Although we risk offending the kayaking or shuffleboard lobbies by saying so, we feel our sport deserves a much higher profile in fitness programs.

It’s almost hard to imaging kids at play outdoors without running. Running has always been a core activity of children’s playtime, and as such should be a vital part of any children’s fitness initiative. Thank you Donald and Mike for pointing out this flaw in the program!

So what should we do about it? I think we should let the First Lady know how we feel. Unfortunately the blog on letsmove.gov does not have a comments section, but they also have a Facebook page. So go ahead and post a comment on their wall! Let’s not let running get overlooked.

Cops and Kids

Is it possible for a parent to ever be excited about having their own children chased by cops? It is if it’s during the Spring Training Classic 10K Cops-n-Kids Fun Run in Jupiter, Florida!

The run takes place on March 5th, 2010 and finishes at home plate in Roger Dean Stadium with the kids being led by a police motorcycle and accompanied (chased?) by officers. Additionally, there will be a Mobile Command Vehicle, a SWAT team, and K9 officers available for instructional tours.

What a great way to promote family fitness and public safety, while introducing our neighborhood heroes — police — to kids in a friendly environment. Kudos to the towns of Abacoa and Jupiter for this fabulous event! I hope it serves as an inspiration to towns and communities across the country.

This week’s Sunday USA Weekend newspaper insert contained a brief article entitled “How to sneak fitness into your children’s lives” (online version here), highlighting a book by Larysa Didio called Sneaky Fitness: Fun, Foolproof Ways to Slip Fitness into Your Child’s Everyday Life.

For some reason, the article troubled me as I was reading it, and I couldn’t quite put my finger on it. After all, anything espousing fitness for kids has to be good, right?

And then I figured out what was bugging me so much.

Family fitness is not something you should “sneak” in

Family fitness is not the same as hiding the dog’s medicine in his dogfood. It’s not something that’s supposed to be good for you, yet so unpalatable that you need to sneak it in.

Somehow, deceiving our children holds a strange attraction on parents. From Santa, to the Easter Bunny, to the Tooth Fairy — tricking our kids has become part of our parental culture.

One day my kids used a kit to make little colorful martians out of gel. When they weren’t looking, the martians disappeared because “their spaceship took off!” For the next half hour, I would make the martians keep reappearing somewhere else in the house when the kids were looking the other direction so that they could be rediscovered to squeals of delight moments later. The kids had fun with it. We had fun with it. But I don’t think our kids will grow up into adults who believe that little martians really did fly around our house that day.

I also don’t think that parents expect their kids to grow up believing in Santa, or the Easter Bunny, or Leprechauns, or all the other cute little pranks we play on our innocent children. So if we expect our kids to figure out our subterfuge as they mature and grow out of it, then why would they not also “grow out of” our fitness subterfuge?

If the only way you can get your kids to stay fit is by sneaking exercise into their lives, what happens when they grow up and move out? Parents should be preparing their kids to live their lives on their own by helping them learn how to make good choices, not by pushing our choices on them through stealth.

Family fitness should be something fun! It should be something you want to do with your kids, and also something that your kids want to do with you. It’s not just about doing it because it’s good for you. It’s about enjoying activities together, and enjoying a healthier lifestyle together.

So how do you make family fitness enjoyable?

On this count, the article pretty much has it right — create fun challenges; give them the tools (although I don’t particularly see how replacing dining-table chairs with fitness balls could possibly end well); and be fit together.

I think the more open you are with your kids about fitness, the more they see you living a healthy lifestyle, and the more you include them in your activities, the more you will all enjoy fitness together.

People are catching on. People want to have fun with their families and they want to have healthy families. Families want to do fun and active things together, and more and more resources are becoming available to help families do just that. (In fact, there’s a great website in my blogroll focused entirely on how to make fitness fun with your family.)

Take a walk with your kids, play tag, go orienteering together, go on a bike ride, go swimming, set up an ad-hoc obstacle course in the backyard. Do anything, just do it together. Your kids will keep begging you for more, and you won’t have to sneak it in.

In all fairness, I haven’t actually read the book in question (and, frankly, am not adding it to my book list after this article), but I ask anyone who has to please comment below with your views. And if you have some creative ideas for including kids in fun and healthy activities, please share them in the comments!

Is it just me, or was running really a lot easier BC (Before Children)? Back in the BC era, there seemed to be so much more flexibility and time for running. But now that I’m in the AD era (American Dad), things are different. With dropping off and picking up kids from school, taking them to soccer practice and other activities, parent-teacher conferences, school volunteer activities, and everything else that goes on in American family life, I’m usually logging miles in the minivan instead of in my running shoes. So how does one find time to run without compromising family commitments? Here are a few tips.

Make running a team effort

If you and your spouse both run, then it’s not just you. Your spouse is feeling the same pressures to balance family, work, and working out that you are. Have you talked about it together? That’s the first place to start. In order to successfully fit running into your family life, you can’t make all the decisions on your own. Make some time – maybe even get a babysitter go out for a nice dinner together – and talk to each other about your individual and your family fitness goals.

You should both agree on what priority running and fitness takes in your individual lives, and on how much time to devote to it. You should also agree on what priority running and fitness takes in your family’s life, and how you want to promote it. If you want your children to grow up with a love for fitness, then they need to see it in practice as a cooperative team effort – not just something that either Dad or Mom does. If your children can see you make trade-offs to make sure your partner has time to work out too, then they will learn by example to respect the needs of others.

Take turns running

Unless you’re an elite runner, you probably don’t need to run every day. Three or four days a week is plenty. You may not hit a PR each time you race, but in the grand scheme of things how important is that really? I trained for my last marathon running only three or four days each week and completed the marathon in 3:45. It wasn’t a PR for me, but it was good enough. And if you only run three or four days each week, you can then take turns with your spouse so that both of you have time to work out.

One good approach is to swap mornings. One of you runs or works out first thing in the morning while the other gets the kids ready for school. Running first thing in the morning is great because it means all of those surprises that come up during the day and steal your time won’t have a chance to pop up before you get your run in. And by taking turns, you each get to spend time in the morning with the kids so that no one parent has to bear the brunt of getting the family going in the morning.

You can also take turns with challenging races. You don’t have to both train for a big race at the same time. You can sacrifice a few days here and there so that your spouse can focus on her race. Then after you’ve supported her and cheered her to the finish, she can recover and skip a few days while you train for your race. Choosing a race and taking turns makes it easier to figure out who has to give a little when other commitments compete for your training time.

Run at lunch

If your employer supports physical fitness (something which more and more employers are supporting nowadays), then make full use of their policy and do your running at lunchtime! It’s a fabulous way to de-stress and refocus in the middle of your hectic workday. After your run you’ll return to work refreshed and energized, and you may even find that some great ideas came your way during your run.

One problem that lunchtime runners encounter frequently is lunchtime meetings. The first thing you need to do is block out your running time on your work calendar so that people know you are busy. The second thing you need to do is tell the people you work with that running is very important to you, that your employer supports physical fitness, and that you like to run at lunch. The third thing you need to do is be a little flexible. If you have an important client meeting, or if lunch is the only time you can get a group of key people together, then it won’t hurt you to skip a day here and there. But if you find yourself skipping your lunchtime runs regularly, then ask yourself if lunch is really the best time for you.

What if your employer doesn’t support physical fitness? Well, the last thing you want to do is sneak out to go running. That’s a good way to get fired (which would then give you plenty of time to run…). If your employer doesn’t support physical fitness, your choices are to find another time of the day to do your running, or get with your co-workers and find out how many other people there are who value fitness as much as you do. If you can band together and present your case professionally (fit employees are happy employees, fit employees take less sick days, fit employees have lower medical bills…), then maybe you can persuade your employer to change their policy. A good place to start is usually HR.

Keep running in perspective

Regardless of which approach you choose to take, remember what role you decided running should play in the life of your family and children, and keep it in perspective. By agreeing on your approach in advance, you’ll find that you really will be running with your family commitments, and not running from your family commitments.